Online Dating Rights. Mail Order Brides
PragueVietnamMoscowGuatemala
FOUR REASONS American men seek romance abroad: Prague, Ha Long Bay, Red Square, small villages in Latin America. Somehow meeting a Czech, Vietnamese, Russian or Peruvian/Colombian/Brazilian woman for a date at one of these exotic places is incomparably more exciting than meeting a hometown girl at the local coffeeshop. Opponents of a man's right to meet foreign women online never stop to consider how enjoyable it is to travel/work/live abroad and learn new cultures and languages while seeking a marriage partner.
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Note to new visitors to this website:  This site is under redesign.  It takes time because we do not get government grants as do the NGOs whose mission it is to ban international dating and marriage.  Meanwhile, all the action is in the Forum.  Click on the Forum link on the right and join the conversation.  (Actually if you want to contribute, in addition to following the registration procedures you need to send me, the admin, an email because I get dozens of spammers a day trying to join and I just delete them all.  My email address is also on the right side of the page.) 

 

 
 
Tahirih Loses Major Grant

TAHIRIH JUSTICE CENTER LOSES MAJOR FEDERAL GRANT!Department of Justice declined to renew bi-annual $500,000 grant.  Read the news here.
 
Womens enews
Womens enews sounds the alarm to the VAWA scam
 
Tahirih gets $1M

Congress gives special interest group Tahirih $1.1M to enforce internet romance law.  Emails to foreigners a felony 
 
Massive Fraud
Massive fraud uncovered in human trafficking statistics by Washington Post  Dating regulation advocates used phony statistics to support IMBRA claiming that American men who meet foreign women via internet are selling them to brothels once they arrive in the US  Read
 
Federal Judge Upholds IMBRA

Anthropology prof publishes book that repudiates IMBRA and supports international marriages.  Exhaustive two-year study vindicates this website.    Click here.

 FEDERAL JUDGE UPHOLDS IMBRA.  CRIMINAL AND SEX CRIMES BACKGROUND CHECKS ON AMERICANS DEEMED CONSTITUTIONAL BEFORE USING INTERNET TO CONTACT FOREIGNERS (FOREIGNERS NOT REQUIRED TO ALSO HAVE CHECKS)- ALL AMERICANS PRESUMED TO BE VIOLENT MOLESTERS BY CONGRESS AND COURT WHILE ALL FOREIGNERS PRESUMED TO BE INNOCENT   Forum discussion.  Click here

 
 
Purpose of ODR
Purpose of Online Dating Rights

Online Dating Rights (ODR) is a group of men and a few women who don't believe that government regulators should decide whom you can marry!  We believe that a new federal law called the International Marriage Broker Regulation Act (IMBRA) is unconstitutional, immoral, and misandrist (man-hating). IMBRA criminalizes American men (and women) who meet foreign women (and men) via the internet. The law requires a man to have a criminal background check, a sex offender check and an intrusive report about intimate details of his life prepared and given to a foreign woman stranger (scammer?) BEFORE he can email or call her. This is the first time in US history criminal background checks have been required for two people to communicate.

IMBRA was developed over several years in secret by US Senator Maria Cantwell*, D, WA, Sen. Sam Brownback, R, KS, NOW and Tahirih Justice Center, a knee-jerk feminist group startup whose sexist director claims that American men seeking to date or marry foreign women “are often sexual predators, rapists or even pedophiles…many are premeditated torturers.” The law was hidden behind another bill and passed in a 2005 Christmas rush. No hearings were held on this law, and no international dating companies or mens’ groups were allowed any input into its development. Even though one purpose of the law as stated by Sen. Cantwell and Tahirih is to protect foreign women from abusive American men, statistics gathered by the INS in a 1999 study show that such relationships are far more successful than American-American relationships. Other justifications for the law are based on misleading, deceptive and dishonest use of statistics and on personal opinions disguised as fact such as phony claims that lonely American men are bringing foreign women to the US on fiance visas and selling them to neighborhood brothels. (The real reason for the law is to eliminate the ability of American men to meet and marry foreign women and to keep these women out of the US, a position for which substantial proof is provided here.) *For the 2006 election Sen. Cantwell received more money from women's groups than any other senator, and she was No. 2 senatorial recipient of funds from nonprofit groups.

NOW and the other knee-jerk feminists objectify and falsely stereotype all foreign women who marry American men as weak, submissive and desperate. They continually demean these women by calling them a pejorative, “mail order brides”. They suggest falsely that because the women are not American women and are so desperate to reach our shores they are willing to allow themselves to be used as “products” purchased by and beholden to any American man who chooses to marry them. They use 19th century terminology to describe the women as "traditional wives". Such attitudes are sexist, racist, ethnocentric, gynocentric, xenophobic and they display a breathtaking ignorance of foreign cultures, human relations and international dating.

ODR believes that this law violates US Constitutional rights to freedom of speech, freedom of assembly, equal protection (Match.com is exempted from the law) and the right to privacy and we think Congress must repeal it. That last right is the one women wrap themselves in to demand legal abortions, but one conveniently ignored by some of the same women who believe the government should regulate how men date and who they choose to marry. We also believe this law is spectacularly misandrist and bad public policy, particularly when according to 2005 US Census data there are millions more unmarried men in the US than unmarried women.

Let it be clear: this website has no quarrel with American women.  After all, we have American mothers, American sisters and American daughters.  Some of us date/have dated Amercan woman AND foreign women. 
Tristan Laurent, ODR Administrator
 
Open Letter to TJC

Open Letter to Layli Miller-Muro of Tahirih Ju$tice Center and Leslye Orloff of NOW's Legal Momentum 

This is an open letter to Layli Miller-Muro, executive director of Tahirih Justice Center, a nonprofit organization based in Virginia that ostensibly provides legal services to immigrant women and to Leslye Orloff of NOW's Legal Momentum, who both play an active role in promoting hate legislation against American men.

Ms. Muro, you have stated publicly that American men who marry foreign women that they first met via internet “are often sexual predators, rapists or even pedophiles…many are premeditated torturers.” You have made this and other misandrist statements on Lifetime TV, on the O’Reilly Factor and on other TV and newspaper interviews. On Vatican Radio broadcast worldwide you stated that most men who marry women abroad are "serial rapists".  You have promoted deceitful, deceptive and downright dishonest statements of fact about men who marry women abroad in an effort to promote legislation that violates our United States Constitution in significant ways.  Ms. Orloff, you have promoted the same legislation and have published utter fabrications of the truth in supporting such legislation.

Layli you are a highly-educated lawyer and frankly you know better.  Leslye you are a big-shot in the radical feminist movement and you know better, too.

I am a lawyer, too and I challenge you to a debate. In fact, my wife is an engineer and international businesswoman and she challenges you to a debate.  (I already know who will win, even if the debate is in your language.)  I want the world to know how you have abused your positions in your respective nonprofit organizations and how you have spread your message of hate against men and superior paternalism over women you consider your inferiors because they were not born in your country. Contact me after your volunteers who monitor this website report this message to you. If you are confident that your IMBRA law is good for American society and will have the support of the public then you will have nothing to worry about.

I’m waiting.  [Note: This challenge has been published to Layli Miller since October 2006 with no response and modified to include Leslye Orloff since Jan 1, 2008.  Layli Miller's father Larry Miller surprisingly is a member of this website and he scoffed when I asked him if I could speak at the next TJC function.]

Tristan Laurent, ODR Administrator

 
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LINKS

LINKS - LINKS - LINKS  Read the text of IMBRA http://www.online-dating-rights.com/index.php?ind=downloads&op=entry_view&iden=45   Prominent feminist Wendy McElroy slams IMBRA  http://www.ifeminists.net/introduction/editorials/2006/0111.html
 
ACCEPTABLE WAYS TO MEET WIFE

ACCEPTABLE WAYS TO MEET YOUR WIFE

1.  Fixed up by friends.

2.  At work, school.

3.  Blind date.

4.  At gym or while hiking, skiing, etc.

5.  Bars of any type.

6.  Tatoo parlors.

7.  At church.

8.  Dating services.

9.  Internet.

10.  Marriage agency. 

11.  Prison pen pals.

12.  Sex clubs or internet sex sites like Adult friendfinders.

13.  BDSM meetings.

14.  Drug rehab meetings.

15.  Halfway houses.

16.  KKK meetings.

17.  Aryan Nations rally.

UNACCEPTABLE WAY TO MEET YOUR WIFE

1.  Internet if she is a foreigner.
 
DUMB LAWS

DUMB LAWS IN AMERICA

California:  Animals are banned from mating publicly within 1,500 feet of a tavern, school or place of worship.

New Mexico:  Idiots may not vote.

Tennessee: You can’t shoot any game other than whales from a moving automobile.

Texas: When two trains meet each other at a railroad crossing, each shall come to a full stop, and neither shall proceed until the other has gone.

United States: Americans may not send emails to foreigners that they meet on the internet unless the Americans first have sex offender checks.  
 
REASONS TO OPPOSE

REASONS THAT KNEEJERK FEMINISTS OPPOSE INTERNATIONAL MARRIAGE

1.  Racism.  Many of the women who marry American men are Asian, some are Black.

2.  Xenophobia.  America doesn't need to have more foreigners in the country.

3.  Ethnocentrism.  Americans are better than people from other countries and American men should marry American women.

4.  Sexism.  American women don't want to marry foreign men, so American men should be prohibited by law from marrying foreign women.

5.  Gender equality.  See #4

6.  Power.  Feminist organizations get billions of dollars in taxpayer funds annually and must advance their industry by developing new theories for male oppression and attacking men.
 
DON'T MARRY

DON'T MARRY AMERICAN FEMINIST WOMEN by Lestat 

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